We are Atmosphere changers!
We affect the atmosphere we inhabit. Atmosphere changers do just that – they change the atmosphere, for good or bad.
The last couple of days I’ve been thinking about how my attitudes and stances affect those around me. (In the world we live in, “around me” can mean physically or even social media – basically any place I have influence whether positive or negative.)
What am I bringing to the conversation when I comment on someone’s post or reply to someone’s question? Do I come into agreement with negativity and join in the pity party? Or do I consciously turn the conversation to seeing the goodness in things and maybe bringing hope where none was perceived before? Do I encourage them to see things from another perspective, or do I simply agree with all the despair?
If someone is experiencing goodness and joy already, do I want to bring them down to my level because I’m having a bad day? Both of these instances will change the atmosphere. So, am I problem focused or am I seeing blessings all around me?
Sometimes I think we (I) need to stop and think about how our attitudes affect those around us.
We are not an island – our attitudes and stances touch others and can have more of an effect than we realize. If I have a bad attitude, my stance will be rigid and I will not be moved to any sort of compassion. My words will be few and maybe even harsh – and sadly history shows that I won’t even care, at least in that moment. Is this what I want to bring into a room? Is this how I encourage others?
I encourage others to do better and be a better person by managing myself first. I will never forget the Danny Silk quote, I can’t control anyone; I can only control myself, and then only on a good day! The “control” he’s referring to has to do with influence. If I’m under control, self-control, and my attitudes love and peaceful, I will have a tremendous effect on those I encounter.
You know if you’ve ever flown in an airplane, the flight attendant always tells you that if the plane loses cabin pressure, put your own mask on first. That way you will still be breathing and be able to help others around you. This is managing us first.
I have to be conscious of what change I will bring to the atmosphere. If I’m not in a place to bring a good shift, I need to walk away and go deal with myself; maybe even a time-out if necessary. (smile)
If I am focused on blessings and the goodness all around me, I can affect someone else’s attitude and perspective simply by allowing what’s in me to pour out on them. How cool is that? This is what I desire and I pray will be more and more prominent in my life.
From this place of contemplation, I would like to encourage us all to give thought to our words; to proactively bring hope and encouragement when we walk into a room, (physically or cyberly.) I would also encourage us to check our attitudes in how we deal with people and issues we may not agree with at the moment. (There’s always room for us ALL to grow and learn more.)
Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God. This is the atmosphere we are bringing to bear.
Try talking about your blessings more than your problems ~ Toby Mac #speaklife ~ It makes the atmosphere around you much more pleasant. No, seriously….
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